Mind & Spirit

Love & Passion Relationship Coaching

Take an honest look at your intimate relationship. Is it missing passion, alignment, engagement, or support? Does your relationship feel like it's missing that electric energy, which was there in your first months or first years together? Are you settling for boring and disconnected, believing that this is how all relationships end up? Even worse,…

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Remedies for Coping in Tragedy

Of the many uncertainties that tragedy leaves us with, I know one thing is true: we must be warriors in our daily lives. In the wake of Boston bombings, just a few short months post-Newtown, we feel vulnerable, confused, angry and raw. Why is this happening? What's wrong with this overcrowded, stressed, and unpredictable world?…

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#14: How to stop struggling and get what you want (in health and in life) with hypnotherapist Bea Soyla

Are you trying to make lifestyle changes but you keep falling back to old habits and old patterns, ending up feeling overwhelmed and frustrated? The secret to changing habits, reaching goals, releasing stress, creating abundance and flourishing relationships is understanding the power of your subconscious mind! When you understand the laws that your mind operates on,…

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How to love yourself

We’re told that we are supposed to love ourselves, but no one teaches us how to do it. (Listen to Maria's guest interview with me here.) Loving your self is a state of being. Who teaches us how to practice self-care? (more…)

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How to deal when you’re frustrated

A few days ago, multiple snags attacked my beautifully cast fishing lines. Debris seemed like the only thing interested in accomplishing my week’s goals. Maybe it was the cold-grey rains of Seattle, or the weight of deadlines combined with endless project flops. Computer work can engender such feelings, especially when you've been glued to the…

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How to love a stranger

When I work at my long-term care facility, I take lunch around 12:30 pm. Most days, I see Florence (not her real name) in the cafeteria. Florence eats alone. She is too shy to reach out to other diners sitting near her. Sometimes she buries herself in a book. Other times, she watches groups interacting…

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Vulnerability Can Be An Asset

"Vulnerability is our most accurate measurement of courage.” (Brené Brown) It's not every day that I find a TED talk so compelling that I would take notes and then write a blog post about it. In her talk about The Power of Vulnerability (Ted Talk), speaker Brene Brown shed light on two very dark and uncomfortable…

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